Friday, November 28, 2014

Wednesday, September 10, 2014


Remember when I said I was going to try 30 days of writing every day? And then I even invited everyone else to join me?

Yeah... I stink.

In my defense, the day I decided to write that post was the beginning of something akin to insanity with Mike's work schedule... like 15 days of non-stop craziness. I had NOOO idea. And, even though I was in a "funk" for awhile and thought it would help me pull out of said funk, it became clear that my funk was a little more than just needing a creative outlet. I needed a full-fledged break. One that, honestly, couldn't be provided until the kids went back to school. They needed to walk out my door and into someone else's for a teensy bit of time.

And, now, the kids are back in school. I may have flunked my own challenge, but I'm feeling so much better. It turns out the bohemian lifestyle is not for me. I need a wee bit of structure and definitely a little alone time in order to function in a healthy manner. There you go. My truthiness.

The point of this blog was originally to update family and friends about our life and post pictures of the children and our little family adventures. More and more I find myself wanting to use the blog as a personal reflection space, which doesn't always involve the kids and may be of zero interest to anyone who reads this thing.

It's not clear whether I will continue to post my "thought" here or just use it as a place to post pictures of the kids for family and friends. I doubt it actually matters to any of you, but I do ponder it quite a bit. What is my goal here? Does it matter?

I have to say that I do love blogs. Even still now, despite the fact that there are 7.9 billion trillion blogs out there, I love reading them. I love the pictures, I love the creativity I get to witness every day and I find them to be inspirational. People live lives in such drastically different ways. One blogger I love is going to travel the world with her family and some backpacks for one year. Another has been living in a remodeled school bus with her hubby and two children. A-mazing. Blogs remind me that we have choices about how and where we live. There is no one "right" way. My life may be rather conventional, but I've still chosen that path for myself. I could chose another one (right, Mike?) and even if we don't depart on a wild adventure next week, I love the constant reminder that I could. Life is a choice.

So this post is really just a bit of an apology and explanation for my AWOL behavior. Nothing more, nothing less. Enjoy the rest of your week. You may bash me in the comment section, if you like. I do loooove reading comments.

Saturday, August 30, 2014


What I thought would be a quiet, perhaps even a little boring, weekend has already started filling up. This morning, Mike and I took the kids into Chicago to meet up with some old law school friends who are in town this weekend. Heidi and Max live in New York, and we don't often see them. You know you're in a different stage of life when you realize the last time you saw someone was prior to one of their children being born. We tend to measure our lives in child birthing cycles now, I guess.

Their sweet curly-haired daughter is three and Anna immediately adopted her. Handholding, chit-chatting, and hugs and kisses. It was the closest Anna will get to babysitting in the near future and she couldn't get enough!

After a quick brunch, we walked around Millennium Park and visited the Bean. The Jazz Festival was in full set-up mode so we steered ourselves through the vendors and into the full lawn of the concert area. The kids ran til they got sticky and sweaty and we sat and chatted.

Our friends had to scoot up to the northern burbs for some wedding festivities so we decided to swing by the Art Institute. Mike's parents gave us a family membership for Christmas and we've used it several times. A Magritte special exhibit had been on our to-do list for awhile and we finally got to see it today. Anna begged to visit the Thorne Miniature Rooms and we bought her a book (surprise!) in the gift shop from the 68 rooms series, which is loosely based on the rooms in the basement of the Art Institute.

My feet were aching after all the walking. Thankfully, we are headed for an evening of leftovers and Star Wars...  

Friday, August 29, 2014

Friday... or we made it this far!

Well, the kids should be home in two hours. That means I've got two hours to, ya know, think. The first week has gone relatively well and the reality that this is seriously happening every day has sunk in with the kids. Anna had no temperature all day yesterday so she made it back to school today.

Our fingers are crossed that next week will be a bit cooler. They've complained so much about the heat and I don't blame them a bit. I can't stand sitting around and sweating, which is exactly what they do because there's no air conditioning in their school.

Labor Day (or Neighbor Day, as Abe calls it) completely snuck up on me. I planned nothing whatsoever, so it looks like one last trip to the pool and, perhaps, some ice cream will be our major social outings. Some friends from NYC are in town and we may be able to catch up with them. Other than that you will find us hanging out and being lazy.

Mike and I had a good meeting with our architect today to discuss the initial plans for a house remodel. We're both pretty giddy about it. This won't be a McMansion by any means, but it will work better for us. We'll be reclaiming a ton of space upstairs and shifting bedrooms to that level and the kitchen plan included an island (be still my heart). There is still so much to figure out like, um, the cost! But that giant cliff is still in the future. Now we just get to enjoy the idea of what our home could be.

Our thoughts have been on home renovation so much that Abe asked me the other day if I personally knew the "home brothers." No, sweet boy, I don't know the Property Brothers. But I would love to have them design our house if they're in the neighborhood. Abe keeps piping up with ideas about what should happen with our house. Make a garage with a bathroom! Paint my room RED! Put in a giant pool!

Sure thing, kiddo.

Thursday, August 28, 2014

First Day Photos!

First Week

So it's Thursday. Day four of the first week of school and wouldn't ya know I've already got a kid sick at home. WHATTT?? Yep, a little cold, nothing too serious, but Anna came home from school yesterday with a runny nose and a 102 temp. Soo here we are.

School started on Monday and I think it's gone relatively well. The first day was a little rough for Anna, but Abe had a grand old time. Kindergarten agrees with him so far, but he does think there's not enough time to just play. Me too!

The first day was weird for me. Mike worked from home so he could walk the kids to school with me. They loved that. We came home to a quiet house after Abe's afternoon kindergarten and sat on the couch... it's an eery silence when the kids are gone. Although I'm very grateful for the quiet time each day and believe this will be good for everyone in our family, I was still a little weirded out. A new rhythm, I suppose.

Yesterday, I went to get my monthly allergy shots. Alone. Yet another little item on my to-do list that suddenly got quieter. However, I got some laundry done and ran a couple of errands and sat on the computer to sign the kids up for a couple of things (which is the HARDEST thing to do when the kids are around). That felt great. Almost too easy, if you know what I mean.

Tonight's dinner is in the crock pot and another load of laundry just finished. People, it's AMAZING what you can do with a teensy bit of kid-free time.

Mike will be home later today from a quick business trip and then we get to meet with our architect tomorrow morning to see some initial drawings for a potential remodel. This has me super psyched!! Fingers crossed that we can make something good happen here!

I'll post first day pics soon, but they're on two different cameras and I haven't been able to transfer them to the computer yet. Tootles!

Tuesday, August 19, 2014

It's starting...

Tomorrow we will visit Abe’s kindergarten class for a walk-thru visit. Tomorrow night we will have soccer practice, our third practice of the season. Last night was my first church committee meeting of the year and next Tuesday will be Mike’s.

School starts Monday. Block party and soccer game on Saturday. The kids will start yoga soon on Tuesdays.  And there are a couple of other odds and ends to add to the weekend calendar this fall.

It’s starting. I’m trying not to overschedule, but stuff just adds up and September is always intense.

At the moment I’m actually looking forward to having a schedule again. I think I just need a little structure to help me get my mojo back. However, the kids are pretty quiet on the subject and I think they’re having some anxiety about the great unknown.

We’re going to head to Chicago for one last visit and lunch with Mike and then the weekend will go quickly with the block party.

I’m hoping the kids will be distracted from their worries and the regular ol’ tensions that erupt during the course of the day around here. The kids are arguing more and more lately and I’d really like to see them have some peacefulness prior to THE BIG DAY next week. We’ll see… as they grow, so do their personalities.

This will be the summer that flew by with lots of little weekend trips and camps rather than a big family vacation. The coming year will bring a lot of changes also, and not just with Abe starting school. We are contemplating a home renovation and that will throw our family a major curveball next year. 

Nothing ever stays the same, does it?

Thursday, August 07, 2014

Let's Run the Numbers

By my count, there are only 18 days left until school starts on Monday, August 25.

18 days.

Now four of those days are already accounted for because we are taking a quick trip to Missouri. That leaves me with:

14 days.

And in those 14 days I've got quite a lot to accomplish...

  • Eye doctor for Abe
  • Yearly check-ups for both kids
  • Collect up all those doctor forms to give to school
  • Attend the Day Out with Thomas event at the Railway Museum
  • Attend a birthday party for family friends
  • Participate in two soccer practices and one soccer game (though we're skipping due to Thomas event)
  • Select FIRST DAY outfits
  • Find FIRST DAY signs for kids to hold and take pictures with
  • Facilitate a church women's group gathering
  • Clear out old artwork/papers to make way for new artwork/papers
  • Make a billion water balloons for block party; attend the block party
  • Get Abe a haircut 
The kids both had little camps this week and so I managed to declutter Abe and Anna's rooms a bit and box up most of their school work in their keep boxes for last year. It was a lot of pitching old papers, but I did want to keep a few items. Of course, I forgot all about the art wall in our dining room.

I hope next week will be warm here because I'd like to veg out at the pool (when we're not running to doc appointments). This summer has been great, but I'm plum tuckered out and I don't seem to have a creative bone left in my body. I know that school will suddenly be upon us and I will regret not having done a few more things with the kids, but that's life, right?